Relationships fail for many reasons and so i provide this reasons so as to make reasonable adjustment to bail your relationship with your lover.
AVOIDANCE: Many people in unhealthy relationships simply avoid facing reality. There are many reasons for this. For instance, deep inside, the people involved may be trying to make themselves appear superior. Or perhaps they don't want to face the fact that their mates really aren't who they say they are. For example, Person A might cover up and make excuses for his mate, person B, who is always late coming home from work and almost always misses family functions. Person A could be trying to avoid reality and make up excuses to cover up an affair that person B is involved in so that it does't destroy their perfect image in everyone's eyes. Or person A could be avoiding the fact that person B is a work addict
FORGIVENESS: No one is perfect. Mistakes are part of life. Those unwilling or unable to forgive, can pretty much count on having more unhealthy relationships over time. Relationships based or growing on anger, spite, disgust, resentment or other negative feelings associated with lack of forgiveness are like wilted flowers. They need tending to or they will die.
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